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Collaborative Divorce
Collaborative Divorce provides a new and improved way of restructuring families. As an alternative to litigation, this process allows for personal decision making, which enables individuals to take responsibility and control of their futures. Using a team approach, couples are helped to deal constructively with conflicts related to settling issues of transition. Collaborative Divorce aims to achieve the best outcome for the family’s future by keeping the needs of all parties in the forefront throughout the negotiation process. Role of the Divorce Coach In his role as Divorce Coach, Dr. Raymond works with one or both parties to help achieve a fair and expeditious settlement by reducing the emotional intensity of feelings which can interfere with moving the process forward. He initially provides an environment where psychological complexities of divorce and the effects it has on all parties can be articulated, understood, and processed. Dr. Raymond assists clients in prioritizing concerns, while identifying goals and vulnerabilities. He helps clients move from stalemated emotional positions to a mutually acceptable agreement with shared beneficial outcomes. By assisting in clarifying individual needs and engaging in problem solving techniques, Dr. Raymond helps clients redefine their relationship and optimize future functioning for the entire family. Dr. Raymond works closely with clients and team members to facilitate ongoing constructive communication. Role of Child Specialist As a Child Specialist in the Collaborative Process, Dr. Raymond assists parents in understanding the complexity of children’s needs in the context of the divorce. He is the sole member of the team who meets with the children to assess their desires, feelings, and interests. In this way Dr. Raymond represents a voice for the children in this process by informing parents and team members about the strengths and needs of each child. By communicating his findings to clients and to the team, Dr. Raymond assists in developing a future oriented plan that sets the stage for optimal relationships between children and both parents.
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